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TEACH YOUR TEENS ABOUT CREDIT..IMPORTANT

 

The JumpStart Coalition suggests that you let your tweens and teens examine your credit report, and that you and your kids read the terms and conditions on a credit-card statement.

That's all great stuff, especially for young adults who are actually applying for credit cards. But you don't want to inundate tweens and high school students with so many details that their eyes glaze over. To make a lasting impression, focus on the big picture and the basics.

For instance, let kids know that people who use credit cards spend more compared with those who use cash or checks. One study found that customers at fast-food restaurants spend 50% more when they pay with plastic rather than cash, says Baylor University marketing professor James A. Roberts, who studies credit usage.



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Other things that adults understand but kids often don't:

 

  • Credit cards are not free money. By definition they're "credit" cards, meaning that when you use them you're borrowing money from the issuer.

  • The card issuer charges interest. Kids know that banks pay interest on savings accounts, but they're not always aware that banks charge interest -- at a much higher rate -- when you take out a loan.

  • Don't max out your credit. Young people are more likely than older adults to charge up to their credit limit. But to get a top credit score, it's best to hold your charges to 25% of your credit limit, or even less.

  • Pay your bills on time. Credit issuers are watching how you handle your cards, and paying late is the worst black mark on your record. (Learn more about what impacts your credit history.)

  • Blots on your credit record can affect your ability to get a job, rent an apartment, buy a car or get a cell phone. See Why Your Credit Score Matters for more info.

  • Pay your bill in full each month, if you can, and always pay more than the minimum. Use our online calculator to show kids that, for example, if you pay $50 a month on a $2,000 balance at 18%, it will take more than five years to pay off the debt. Pay less than $30 a month and you'll never be out of debt.

Mom and Dad, share your personal experiences with your kids. They'll love to hear how you screwed up and then made things right. If you're still in credit trouble, take the opportunity to clean up your act. See Don't Let Debt Get You Down for help.



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BEING A SINGLE FATHER

 

Make Your Kid Feel Secure 
As a father, it is the most important part of your parenthood to make your kid feel secure. Assure that he feels secure about his life and future and understands that you are always with him in his problems and necessities. Also, make sure that your kid doesn't develop any kind of threat from anything or anyone around.

Ensure 24x7 availability 
Though you will need to be on your toes 24 hours, make sure you are available for your kid in every necessity. Assure that you will be available for him if he has difficulty in some terminal examination or even when he has a fight with his best friend. Be by his bed side when he is ill and do not miss to attend the Parents- Teacher meet.

Discuss Life with Him/Her
Discuss life with him; make him know that life is a little different for both of you than other people- but the difference is of course healthy and good. Do not keep him in illusionary world but do not even be a harsh explainer. Tell him everybody's life is special and the same is applicable for your life. Ask him if he is confused about anything or wants your opinion, be gentle in the way you teach him life's practicalities.

Bid a Good Bye to Bad Habits 
As a single father, you obviously miss the own space, so whatever you do is completely exposed to your kid. Avoid smoking, drinking, betting, slang or any such habit you have if you want to be an ideal hero in front of your kid.

Never Be Critical About Relationships
Though you may have very harsh experiences from your relationships in life, never nurture hard feelings inside your kid about relations. Never criticize or abuse his/her mom in front of her and make him understand that though certain relation may not work properly, it never means some one is bad or wrong. Let him grow with a healthy mind set.

Understand Your Kids Necessities
Your kid's necessity can vary with time and age. Try to understand his issues. Do not show disinterest even if the issues are minor. Your attention will make him feel confident.

Share Hobbies
There is nothing better if you naturally share some hobby but even if you do not, try to love something your kid adores. Enjoy photography; painting or trekking together, this will help you come closer.

Tell Everything About Your Work and Social Life
Do not make him ponder about what you do and where you live whole day. Assure that you clearly explain him about your work culture, your work profile and people you live with. Introduce to him your social circle.
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